All About Camden, Jaxon and Saylor

Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler are proud co-parents to their three kids.

The former couple welcomed their first child, Camden, in 2012 and got married the next year. Jaxon joined the family in 2014, and Cavallari and Cutler announced the birth of their third child, Saylor, in 2015.

The Uncommon James founder and the former NFL player split in April 2020 after nearly seven years of marriage and 10 years together. Announcing the news on Instagram, Cavallari initially said their breakup was “just the situation of two people growing apart.”

More recently, the reality star has said that though she was “really unhappy” in her relationship, she refrains from speaking about her ex negatively in public out of respect for her and Cutler’s kids.

“Because I have three kids with him, I’m very careful about what I say. If you and I didn’t have microphones in front of us, I’d f—— tell you but you know, that’s their dad and my oldest Googles us now, and I just want to be very careful,” Cavallari said on an August 2022 episode of the Call Her Daddy podcast.

When it comes to co-parenting, the pair have both talked about how they make it work. “It’s good,” Cutler told E! News in June 2021. “We’ve done a good job of putting them first.” The same year, in an interview with Grazia Magazine, the mom of three added that she takes her cues from her own parents’ divorce.

“Never put the kids in the middle of it, no matter how mad you are at your ex-spouse. One thing that my mom did was she never said anything bad about my dad,” Cavallari said. “Now that I’m older, I really respect that. I always want my kids to see Jay and me as a united front. He’s their father. That’s important and they need to see that from me.”

The former couple, who now share joint custody of their kids, also seem to be aligned on not showing their kids’ faces on social media.

“Every year it gets harder to come up with creative ways to hide their faces so I can post a pic on their bdays (yes, I realize a lot of you don’t get it— I want my kids to make their own decision to be on social media instead of me making it for them),” The Hills alum explained on Instagram in May 2022.

From welcoming their little ones to their sweetest family moments over the years, here’s everything to know about Jay Cutler and Kristin Cavallari’s three kids.

Camden Jack, 11

Cavallari and Cutler became parents on Aug. 8, 2012, with the arrival of their firstborn son, Camden Jack.

“We are thrilled to welcome Camden Jack Cutler into the world,”  the new mom posted on Twitter (now known as X). “He was born this morning weighing 7 lbs., 9 oz. Everyone is doing great!”

Cavallari later shared that Cutler had a front-row seat to Camden’s birth despite her initial desire for him not to watch.

“I was like, ‘You’re going to be behind me. You’re not going to see anything,’ ” she told E!‘s Giuliana Rancic in 2013. But the nurses had other plans, Cavallari added. “At that point, I’m like, ‘Whatever.’ So he held my leg — he saw the whole thing,” she shared.

Much like his reality TV scene-stealing mom, Camden has developed quite the personality as he’s grown up. In December 2022, Cavallari shared a cute video of her and Camden cooking pasta bolognese from her True Comfort cookbook.

“This kid kills me,” she captioned a clip of Camden wiggling in front of the stove as he stirred the pot.

The previous October, Cavallari revealed that Camden had stolen a pair of her white sneakers to wear to school. “So I definitely didn’t think that the first kid to steal shoes from me would be Camden, but here we are,” she wrote on a snap of her eldest showing off his kicks.

On his 11th birthday in August 2023, Cavallari shared more about her eldest’s personality. “Watching you become the most incredible young man is such a gift. You’re pure love and light and I’m thankful every single day for you,” she wrote on Instagram.

Jaxon Wyatt, 10

Nearly two years after Camden’s arrival, Cavallari and Cutler welcomed their second son, Jaxon Wyatt, on May 7, 2014.

“Welcome Jaxon Wyatt Cutler 7 lbs., 11 oz. 5/7/14,” the new mom wrote on Instagram alongside a photo of her hospital bracelet and her baby’s booties.

“The second time around, you know exactly what to expect and we’re just ready,” Cavallari told PEOPLE ahead of the birth. “This one, I’m like, ‘Let’s get him out here, I want to see him, I just want to hold him and see what he looks like.’ I’m just really excited more than anything.”

Though Cavallari and Cutler split when Jaxon was young, the former couple have been dedicated to spending as much time with their kids as possible. One year after their split, the Very Cavallari star revealed that during her “off weeks,” when the kids are with their dad, she takes them each out one at a time for some quality bonding. On one of Jaxon’s dates, he dressed to impress.

“I’ve been taking one kid at a time on my off weeks for date night and last night was Jaxon’s turn,” Cavallari wrote on Instagram in April 2021. “This kid kills me- he wore a suit and bow tie with dress shoes and was the best little date I could ask for. He kept me laughing the entire time. Thankful to be able to spend some one-on-one time with my babies.”

Jaxon has even taken an interest in his mom’s dating life, as she documented on Instagram in June 2022. “I’m getting dating advice from my boys,” Cavallari said in the video, in which she covered her boys’ faces with emojis. “Jaxon just said I need to date somebody older.” When she asked him why, he replied, “Young people are crazy.”

In May 2024, Cavallari celebrated Jaxon’s 10th birthday with a post on her Instagram Stories that featured a throwback photo of her son as a toddler, giving his mom a kiss.

“Happy birthday to my baby bull, Jaxy!” she wrote. “I love you to the moon my sweet man.”

Saylor James, 8

Cavallari and Cutler welcomed their third child, daughter Saylor James, on Nov. 23, 2015.

“She’s going to steal Jay’s heart, which will in turn melt mine!” the reality star told American Baby magazine in 2015. “I’m excited for the boys to grow up with a sister. I think it will help them to better understand and respect women.”

In February 2021, the mom of three shared a sweet snap of her daughter and her cooking together, reflecting on their special solo time. “Saylor gets out of school an hour before the boys so we always get to have a little girl time,” she captioned the photo. “It’s the last few months of this before my baby is in kindergarten so I’m soaking it up. Chocolate chip cookies today with my lil bestie.”

Sayler and Cavallari celebrated another mother-daughter milestone in April 2022: getting Saylor’s ears pierced. Cavallari shared the big news on her Instagram Story, posting a photo of her youngest’s new diamond studs and writing that she was “a champ” during the process.

On Saylor’s 8th birthday, Cavallari revealed that despite being the youngest, her daughter is able to hold her own with her siblings.

” … you have the ability to nurture and take care of everyone you love, while also holding your own (especially with your older brothers),” she wrote on Instagram in November 2023. “You’re my favorite girl to do life with. I’m the luckiest to be your mama.”