Selena Gomez dating history: Her boyfriends and exes

Selena Gomez may have kept her love life away from the limelight over the years, but she has had several high-profile relationships.

In January 2023, the “Calm Down” singer was linked to The Chainsmokers DJ Drew Taggart after Page Six obtained photos of their New York City date.

From popstar heartthrobs to music producers, here are all the men Gomez has been linked with over the years.

Nick Jonas

Gomez was first linked to Nick Jonas in 2008 when they crossed career paths at Disney Channel. The two confirmed romance speculation when Gomez appeared in the Jonas Brothers’ “Burnin’ Up” music video that summer.

The two dated for two years until they decided to go their separate ways in March 2010. Five years later, Gomez reflected on her relationship with Jonas.

“We were kids! We really caught on the other day, and it’s really fun to be able to do that,” Gomez told Capital FM those days. “That, to me, was like puppy love. It was so sweet. He’s cute. I definitely have love for him.

Taylor Lautner

The singer and “Twilight” hunk Taylor Lautner had a brief romance after she first split from Jonas in 2009. They met through Lautner’s “Twilight” co-star Kristen Stewart, who was staying in the same Canadian hotel as the Disney actress. While filming various projects.

Their relationship turned out to be a filmy fling, as they were only seen together once in Los Angeles.

“We would go out to lunch and dinner, but I knew he had paparazzi following me and I had paparazzi following him,” she told Seventeen in August 2009. Went a little too far, I think. People were getting a little crazy about us.

Justin Biber

Perhaps her most famous ex, Gomez dated popstar Justin Bieber for several years.

They initially sparked romance rumors in late 2010 and their romance was confirmed in early 2011 when they were spotted kissing on a yacht in Saint Lucia.

They then made their red carpet debut at the Vanity Fair Oscar Party in February of the same year, before verbally confirming dating in May.

The A-Listers initially split up in November 2012, reconnected in April 2013, and ended up again by December 2013. They kept breaking up and getting back together until Bieber confirmed in September 2015 that he ended things because it was “too much at that age”.

“When things would happen, I’d lose my freaking mind, and she’d lose her mind, and we’d fight so hard because we were so invested in each other,” he said. told the complex those days.

“Love is a choice. Love is not a feeling. People have shown in movies that it is a fairy tale.

The exes dated for the next few years before rekindling their romance – at least for now – in October 2017. They separated in March 2018, before Bieber married his wife, Hailey Bieber, in September of that year.

Gomez later spoke on the relationship and said that she was “the victim of some abuse” from her ex.

“I had to find a way to understand it as an adult,” she told npr In January 2020. “And I had to understand the choices I was making. As much as I certainly don’t want to spend the rest of my life talking about this, I’m really proud to say that I feel the strongest I’ve ever been and I’ve found a way to move on with it as much as I can. As much grace as possible.

Orlando Bloom

In April 2014, during the period of her and Bieber’s breakup, Gomez sparked romance rumors with Hollywood hunk Orlando Bloom when they were photographed getting to know each other in LA.

Despite never confirming their relationship, the rumors were a “silly conspiracy” when Bloom’s girlfriend Katy Perry tweeted that they had been seen hooking up again in May 2016, which he denied. Gomez retweeted Perry’s words.

Jade

The “Only Murders in the Building” actress dated music producer and DJ Zedd — whose real name is Anton Zaslavsky — in early 2015.

They were seen holding hands at a Golden Globes party and were Instagram-official by the end of January. However, they did not last more than a few months when Gomez confirmed that their fling was over.

“I adore Anton [Zedd] A lot and I definitely had a thing with her, which was cool,” Gomez told “The Age Afternoon” In June 2015.

Zedd also later addressed the relationship and admitted to billboard Dating Someone With Gomez’s Fame “Changes”[d] my life.”

niall horan

Fans of Gomez and One Direction hottie Niall Horan were constantly wondering if they were more than just best friends.

After being spotted on several dates together in late 2015, they reportedly packed on the PDA at Jenna Dewan’s 35th birthday party in December. Gomez denied the romance rumors shortly afterwards.

“Father! He’s not told ET later that week. “I love her, I always have. She’s amazing.”

Fans thought they had rekindled their spark in late 2019, but Horan clarified that he was still “pretty much single” in a December episode ofBreakfast with Lise, Sarah, Dan and Ben,

Samuel Crost

The “Spring Breakers” actress had a brief relationship with Gigi Hadid’s close friend Samuel Krost at the same time she sparked romance rumors with Horan.

They were photographed hanging out several times during a January outing and even holding hands. By Valentine’s Day of 2016, Gomez revealed to her Instagram users that she was single, so their fling had died down.

Charlie Puth

Gomez was linked in March 2016, collaborating with popstar Charlie Puth on his hit song, “We Don’t Talk Anymore”. Gomez never discussed or confirmed the alleged romance, but the “Light Switch” singer said their romance “really messed me up.”

“I don’t kiss and tell, but the only way to present a song like this as real is if there’s something else going on behind the scenes,” he added. told billboard In February 2018.

“And that’s what was happening [with Gomez], Very small, very small, but very impressive. And it really screwed me over. I’m trying to put this in the best possible way: It wasn’t like I was the only person on his mind. And I think I knew going in – what I was getting myself into.

Weekend

From January to October 2017, the “Same Old Love” songstress had a hot and heavy relationship with The Weeknd.

Shortly after romance rumors sparked at the beginning of the year, the couple vacationed together in Italy. By the end of the month, Gomez made their relationship Instagram-official by the end of the month.

Gomez then tagged along for her spring tour and she made her red carpet debut at the Met Gala in May. However, their different schedules eventually led to their October split.

Gomez later explained that she and her ex ended things on good terms.

“Something I’m really proud of is having such a true friendship [between me and The Weeknd],” he told billboard in November 2017. “I have never really experienced anything like this in my life. We ended it as best friends, and it was really about being encouraging and caring. [for each other]And that was pretty remarkable to me.”

drew taggart

Gomez took a break from dating in the public eye for a few years until rumors of a romance with The Chainsmokers DJ Drew Taggart surfaced in January 2023.

a source told us weekly The two have been seeing each other in a “very casual and low-key” way, but are “having a lot of fun together.”

Page Six obtained exclusive photos of the two on a bowling date in New York City that same week. An eyewitness also revealed that they were “having sex out” during the outing.

Neither Gomez nor Taggart have addressed their rumored romance.